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Julieanne M Bartlett's avatar

This was so heartfelt and poignant, Danielle. It really touched me. I'm so moved when you share your heart. Thank you for trusting us : )

Danielle Bean's avatar

Thank YOu for such sweet encouragement Julieanne! I'm so grateful for you. :)

Cheryl A's avatar

This is exactly what I needed to read today. Thank you for sharing this Danielle and for being vulnerable with us. We are seeing our second of three off in the fall and you would think that it gets easier with each one but it doesn't. Thank you!!

Danielle Bean's avatar

It's just different kinds of hard! Thank you for sharing, Cheryl. I will pray for your transition!

Harbor Lily Creative's avatar

Oh Danielle...my heart. I'm praying for you, sister- with every ounce of shared experience and hope for similar acceptance and joy in my being! Thank you for sharing such beautiful insights! Peace to you +

Danielle Bean's avatar

I know YOU understand. Thank you for the prayers. I'm praying for you too. God bless you guys!

Rosemary McGuire Berry's avatar

Oh dear Danielle, I want to give you a hug! You have done such a beautiful job with your family, and you raised your little chicks to fly. God bless you in this new season, and may He comfort your mama heart. [[[[HUGS]]]]

Danielle Bean's avatar

Thank you so much Rosemary! :) <3

Mandy Mazzawi's avatar

Ugh! Gut punch. My oldest is 14 at the end of August and I this is coming. Thank you for sharing for those of us about to walk this journey.

Danielle Bean's avatar

Thank you Mandy!

Erin Broestl's avatar

Thanks, Danielle! This will be me in a few years. I will bawl my eyes out, and stand in amazement for all God has done in my life.

Danielle Bean's avatar

Sounds like a perfect plan!

Gina's avatar

I understand how you feel! I have three in college/grad school so far. The next will be in college in a year. Once it starts, it just keeps going. You are so blessed to have grandkids! I do not see any grandkids in my near future. My boys are very focused on their studies. Hugs!

Danielle Bean's avatar

I know the grandkids are for sure a blessing. Yours will come in due time! Praying for you and your family through all of life's changes. God bless you!

Yvette H Ridenour's avatar

Right there with you! My oldest is getting married next April and my youngest is graduating college one month later! It's exciting and wonderful and heartbreaking all at the same time.

Danielle Bean's avatar

Congratulations Yvette! What a wonderful and special time for all of you. "Exciting and wonderful and heartbreaking..." So very true!

Barb Szyszkiewicz's avatar

It just doesn't seem possible that he's old enough for college now. Of course you had that grief going on in the background! It'll pop out at weird times, and other times you will enjoy the empty-nest days. In the meantime I bet you're making all his favorite dinners before he has to go eat dining hall food! Where will he be going to college?

Danielle Bean's avatar

Thank you Barb! I know you understand all of this stuff too. He'll be at Ave Maria where so many of our others have gone, and he will THRIVE (as will we)! I hope your gang is still doing well!