š¦ Clothed in COURAGE: living boldly in God's promises
a letter to God, ordinary grace in ordinary time, and a powerful speech inspire courage in the everyday
Fear sometimes disguises itself in my life: as procrastination, overthinking, perfectionism, or even busyness. Sometimes I hesitate to act, not because I donāt know what to do, but because Iām scared of doing it wrong, looking foolish, or being misunderstood.
But hereās something God is gently teaching me: Courage doesnāt mean we arenāt afraid. It means we trust God enough to take the next step anyway.
This week, Iām sharing ideas for writing a letter to God, ordinary grace in ordinary time, and a powerful scene to inspire courage in the everyday as we reflect on the virtue of courageānot the loud, dramatic kind, but the quiet, steady kind that shows up in everyday acts of faith. What is God asking you to be brave about right now? Letās face it together.
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āļø Write a Letter to God About Your Fear
āBe strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.ā ā Joshua 1:9
Whatās something youāre afraid of right now? It might be something big: losing someone you love, failing at something important, or stepping into a new season that feels uncertain.
Or it might be something small but persistent: worry about being misunderstood, fear of disappointing others, or a quiet ache that keeps showing up in your thoughts.
Today, take some time to write a letter, not to your fear, but to God about your fear.
š How to begin
Be honest. Name the fear clearly.
Describe how it shows up in your life and how it makes you feel.
Tell God what you wish you could do if fear didnāt get in the way.
Ask God for his strength, his presence, his help.
Then, try writing Godās response to you. Imagine what God might say to you in his love, through Scripture, through the quiet of prayer, or through the voice of a Father who knows you better than you know yourself.
šÆ Optional (but powerful):
If you feel led, you can burn or tear up the letter as a symbolic act of surrender. Let it be your way of handing the fear over to God, fully, freely, and finally.
š Letās Pray
Lord, here is the fear Iāve been carrying. I donāt want it anymore. I trust you to hold it for me. Please fill the empty space with courageāyour courageāand help me take one small step forward, knowing you go with me. Amen.
š Liturgical Spotlight ā Ordinary Time as Courage in the Everyday
Next week weāll mark our return to Ordinary Timeāthe longest season of the liturgical year, and perhaps the most underrated. After the high feasts of Easter and Pentecost, weāll settle into the quiet green season that doesnāt get much fanfare.
But donāt let the name fool you. Ordinary Time is anything but unimportant.
This season invites us to growānot through dramatic moments or big conversions, but through everyday courage:
The courage to be patient with your family when your fuse is short.
The courage to pray, even when you feel spiritually dry.
The courage to stay hopeful when life feels repetitive, invisible, or unseen.
Ordinary Time is the season of showing up, again and again, even when itās hard, boring, or uncomfortable.
Reflect
Where in your ordinary life might God be asking for small, steady acts of bravery?
Here are a few places to look:
Saying yes to something new at church, even if it feels awkward.
Going to confession after putting it off.
Refusing to join in gossip, even if it costs you social points.
Taking a break from social media, even if it feels lonely at first.
Scripture Tie-In
āWhoever is faithful in little things is also faithful in great ones.ā ā Luke 16:10
š Letās Pray
Lord, help me to find you in the small, steady moments. Teach me to be courageous in the hidden places of my life. Let my everyday āyesā to you be an act of love that bears fruit in due time. Amen.
š„ Samwise the Brave in The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers
Iām sure this movie scene is already a favorite of yours, but Samās speech near the end of The Two Towers is one of the most courageous and faith-filled moments in film.
As Frodo begins to despair, Sam reminds him, and us, that the darkness doesn't win. That even when everything seems hopeless, āthereās some good in this worldā¦and itās worth fighting for.ā
The moment isnāt flashy or violent. Itās quiet courage. Faithfulness. Friendship. And the refusal to give up when all seems lost.
Reflect
When have you felt discouraged in your journey?
Who has been a āSamā in your lifeāreminding you of hope when you forgot it?
Where is God asking you to keep going, even when youāre tired?
Where do you need to be brave right nowānot in a big way, but in a quiet, faithful way?
Who around you needs your encouragement to keep going?
š Letās Pray
Lord, thank you for the people who hold us up when we want to quit. Give me the courage to keep walking toward you, one step at a time. Let me be a voice of hope for others, too. Amen.
Hi, Danielle,
To tell of my fear: as I was growing I understood to fear and to love God. A dichotomy perceived my little brain; but this fear I had of God, brought me to the Cross. And now at its foot I find Jesus so awesome, and in Him, through him, I find a wonderful harmony, setting words and The Word alight in my noggin.
And this is the verse I penned just prior to reading this Newsletter.
To The Firmament Beyond the horizon āØļø
To me, Books, in my instance,
are tool-boxes housing nouns and verbs,
with adjectives and adverbs to colour their distinction.
To a noun an adj to add season.
Adverbs to verbs of intent of reason.
This is towards a started writing describing Christians in action in categories of words.
I'm hoping to link up with you today. I think it was the 2nd of June I booked.
I hope it's possible, i know I am a male, but your ministry for God's creatives' Minds I find as inspiring. And as such I would to journey with you to compare on how we are creating.
I find lots of advice from your plenitude of showing God's Grace in what you're creating, and do applaud you.
One instance I will share right now. A bullet point of yours was to start in the middle of the mess. And looking around my apartment, it translated to start with the mess in the middle, which was me. But that went to a higher level of thinking, when I learned from your kind thought; God's not looking for perfection. Which now I perceive so, as thus, why choose me? But God's invitation to his Ball I wholeheartedly accept, while praying I can live up to His invite.
Anyway, I hope we can connect by video link, I presume that's the medium?
Till then, many thanks. Andy