Pray Together, Stay Together

Day 4 of our 5-Day Challenge

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“Why is this so awkward?”

A friend once said this to me about trying to pray with her husband. It’s fascinating that many of us find it awkward to pray together, and that’s because it really is an intimate thing to do. Most things are awkward when you do them for the first time, but the good news is that the more you do it, the more natural it will become. And praying together is one of the most beautiful, connecting things you can do as a couple.

Some Ways to Pray Together

There’s no right or wrong way to pray as a couple. Years ago, I had Alicia Hernon on my podcast, and she reminded us all that if you attend Mass with your husband, you are already praying together! I found that really encouraging. Some other ideas that might inspire you:

• Pray a morning offering together before starting your day

• Start a novena to a favorite saint

• Pray together before going to bed, reflecting on your day and planning for the next

• Share prayer intentions in a notebook you keep together

Also pray for him.

If you are married, your #1 job is getting your husband to heaven. Do you think about that? One of the most powerful ways you can support your husband and grow in your marriage is by praying for your husband. I sometimes hear from women whose husbands are reluctant to pray with them or who don’t share their faith, but this is something everyone can do. Make sure you are praying for your husband every day.

Here’s Your Assignment

There are specific action items in today’s challenge to inspire you further and really make the most of this 5-day challenge, but for now, here’s something we can all do:

Add sacrifice to your prayer. Think of something small you can offer to God today, asking him to bless your husband with whatever he needs most. You might skip sugar in your coffee or offer up the annoyance of being stuck in traffic. Do it for your marriage!

Your marriage needs this.

These 5 days of prayer, reflection, and action are a shot in the arm your marriage needs. Each day of this challenge includes:

Each day of this challenge includes:

💙 Lectio Divina: Real spiritual connection in just a few minutes.

💙 Group Chat: Connect with a supportive community of like-minded women for encouragement and shared wisdom

💙 2 Action Items: Simple, actionable steps to strengthen your marriage daily

💙 Questions: Reflect deeply on your relationship to uncover insights and foster growth

☑️ BONUS Live Video:

We had a live Zoom call discussion on Wednesday, October 23, with a special guest marriage expert: Secrets of Marital Intimacy: Live Q&A with Sarah Bartel. The replay will be available to paid subscribers.

Are you ready? It’s Day 4! Let’s go!