Daily Drudgery?
If you go into marriage thinking that divorce is even a possibility…you are going to get divorced. If you go into marriage with the idea that you can quit this lifelong commitment thing when it’s not fun anymore…you are going to quit this lifelong commitment thing. Even the best of marriages between two perfect human beings stop being fun sometimes.
Let’s make it fun.
Time you spend having fun together is the stuff that bonding is made of. What did you and your husband do for fun before you were married? What kind of dates did you enjoy?
Here’s the good news: You still are those same people. You can have fun together. It doesn’t have to be fancy or complicated, but it takes some thinking and effort.
Here’s Your Assignment
There are specific action items in today’s challenge to inspire you further and really make the most of this 5-day challenge, but for now, here’s something we can all do:
Initiate physical affection. It could be a spontaneous hug or holding his hand while walking through a parking lot. Do something small that lets him know you see him, even in the midst of an ordinary day.
Your marriage needs nurturing.
These 5 days of prayer, reflection, and action are a shot in the arm your marriage needs. Each day of this challenge includes:Each day of this challenge includes:
💙 Lectio Divina: Real spiritual connection in just a few minutes.
💙 Group Chat: Connect with a supportive community of like-minded women for encouragement and shared wisdom
💙 2 Action Items: Simple, actionable steps to strengthen your marriage daily
💙 Questions: Reflect deeply on your relationship to uncover insights and foster growth
☑️ BONUS LIVE VIDEO HAPPENING TONIGHT:
We’ll have a live Zoom call discussion tonight, October 23, with a special guest marriage expert: Secrets of Marital Intimacy: Live Q&A with Sarah Bartel. This is a private space where you can bring your struggles and anonymously ask those questions about marital intimacy that you’ve been too shy to ask elsewhere. We will be learning together, and you can actively participate or quietly listen. See link to register below!
Are you ready? It’s Day 3! Let’s go!
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